Talking to parents about dating
Adams & Williams (2011) asked teens in a Southwestern U. What about UTS students, who are likely a very different populatio?
What do the teens here wish their parents told them?
Young teens tend to see romantic relationships in idealized ways and can experience emotional extremes that they struggle to manage (Furman, Brown, & Feiring, 1999).
Adams & Williams (2011) found that many teens also expressed that they would actually like their parents to talk to them about this topic.
Dating another person does not define who you are, and being single doesn't make you less valuable of a person.
I don't even know how my parents met and I've never heard them talk about any of their own experiences before.”“To be honest, my parents did a great job overall, but I think they sort of skipped over a key point, which is that you do not need to be a in a relationship.
They believe that Christian teens should date responsibly and not just date for the sake of dating.
Knowing where you fall in the spectrum will help you set rules later.
As they try to figure out how to make healthy and beneficial decisions in this area, take the time to guide and mentor them.
They need some direction from reliable adults on dealing with emotions, peers, physical development, attraction, and all of the other previously unchartered experiences.